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How To Spot A Grumpy Person Before They Bite Your Head Off

Whether you're in sales, management, customer service, or dealing with friends, family, or lovers - you get to deal with grumpy people....

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Negative Facial Expressions: Warning Signs You Need To Heed

I'm sure you've been told, "If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all." That's a very polite and gracious way of life,...

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Intimidating Body Language: How To Be Taken Seriously

When the word, "No," comes out of your mouth, it can mean one of two things. 1. I don't want you to do this, but I don't have any way to...

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How To Show More Confidence

I want to begin this post by saying there is no such thing as self-esteem. Your personality (made up of Openness, Conscientiousness,...

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How To Learn More About Body Language

After a speaking event, I'm often pulled aside by total strangers and asked, "What did you notice about MY body language?" That's very...

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Standing Up For Yourself: How To Say No

Growing up, I was subtly taught that it was WRONG to say no to people. Turning people down meant that you were actually a horrible,...

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What Your Outer Appearance Says About You

People typically make up their minds about you before you have a chance to open your mouth and defend yourself. This means that people...

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How People Judge You At First Sight (And Why That's Probably Not Working Out For You)

When people meet you, you only have a few seconds before they make up their minds about you. Some studies show you actually have LESS...

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What To Do In The First 5 Seconds Of Your Job Interview

When walking into an interview, your nonverbal communication makes a first impression long before you get a chance to speak. But, most...

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Why You Were Passed Over For Promotion

First of all - ouch. I'm sorry about that. The bad news is: You're hurt and humiliated, and those emotions aren't going to magically...

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What To Do With Your Hands In Public, On Stage, & On Camera

If you do a lot of work in public, on TV, on camera, or on stage, there's a good chance you wonder about what to do with your hands. And...

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3 Steps To Not Be A Boring Speaker: Your Audience Looks Bored Because They Actually Are

As a body language expert, it's always fun for me to watch my audience and tell what catches their interest - and what they couldn't care...

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5 Steps To Handle Strong Emotions So You Don't Do Something You'll Regret

Every now and then, someone will say or do something that shocks, hurts, or angers you. The way you react will make all the difference....